to Walter and Evelyn Townsley. Two older uncles lived
with family, and his younger sister Charlann completed the
household.
Dick had an outstanding youth,
participating in a wide range of athletics and
many other activities. His high school years were
packed full, as he played football, basketball, swam, and was on the
track team and a local gymnastics team. He was also president of his
junior and senior classes.
Following his graduation from Clinton
High School in 1948, he studied for two
years at Iowa State University. Likely influenced by
the two uncles who had lived
with the family and who had both served in the Army
during World War II, Dick
sought a military career. Accordingly, he was
appointed to West Point by
Congressman Henry O. Talle of Iowa’s 2nd District.
Entering on July 5, 1950 with the Class of 1954, Dick was assigned
to Company E-1. A popular cadet, he was
especially known for his gymnastic ability, his
determination to succeed, and his
strong friendships. His appreciation for languages
was evident in his membership
in the Russian, Spanish, and French clubs. He was
also active in the Debate Council and the Ordnance Club.
In the spring of 1954, Dick met Marjorie
Bohne of Ridgewood, NJ, a freshman at Ladycliff College. Dick was a
short-term patient at the West Point Hospital at the time, and Marge
and a friend were visiting someone else. The immediate chemistry
between the new acquaintances had long term results. They spent much
time together prior to Dick’s rapidly approaching graduation and
during the extended leave that followed. Following that leave, Dick
attended the Basic Infantry Officer Course at Fort Benning, GA but
headed right back to New Jersey immediately afterward.
Dick and Marge were married in Ridgewood
on December 20, with fellow E-1ers Joe Devlin, Fletch Buckley, and
Jim Miller in the wedding party. With the Ranger Course about to
start, their honeymoon essentially consisted of the
drive back to Fort Benning.
Following Dick’s Ranger qualification,
the couple remained at Fort Benning as
Dick commenced his initial troop assignment with the
3rd Infantry Division.
Commencing married life, “joining” the Army, and
setting up a new home in the
1955 South posed a special challenge to the new bride
that she happily accepted. Their first two children, Richard Jr. and
Michael, were born during this tour.
Dick next served in Munich, Germany
during 1956–60 with the 10th Infantry
Division and the 46th Armored Infantry Battalion.
Dick, Marge, and the kids loved the assignment and traveled as much
as money and time would allow.
Their daughter, Kimberly, joined the family during
that time.
The family returned to Fort Benning in
1960 for Dick to attend the Infantry
Career Course, with their final child, Peter, joining
the family before their move to a three-year ROTC assignment at West
Virginia University.
Dick next had a 13-month unaccompanied
tour in Korea with the 1st
Cavalry Division, while the family returned to
Ridgewood.
Following a short assignment at Fort Ord,
CA, Dick was sent to Vietnam to
serve in the 9th Division during 1966–67. Although
wounded by a mine during
that tour, he completed his tour before what became
his terminal assignment
at Fort Bliss, TX. Following treatment at nearby
William Beaumont Hospital, Dick was medically retired as a major on
the saddest day of his life. For ready access to a hospital and
needing to pursue new careers in a familiar area, the Townsleys
remained in the El Paso area.
Dick went back to college at UTEP,
earning a business degree and then a
graduate degree in accounting, receiving the latter
in 1978. At the same time,
Marjorie received a master’s degree, and Richard Jr.
received his undergraduate
degree. Accounting and math in general were longtime
interests.
From there Dick worked for an accounting
firm and taught part-time at the community college, eventually
teaching all phases of accounting as a full-time college professor.
He found that especially enjoyable.
Along with the teaching, Dick was the
senior accountant for several small
companies, an added responsibility that filled many
of his evenings. However, as
a dedicated family man and avid sports fan, Dick
never missed a sports event in
which his kids participated and didn’t miss a UTEP
home basketball game in
over 30 years.
Dick taught his kids to follow his
example by enjoying their relationship with all others and treating
them with kindness and respect, and he also taught them to stand up
for what they believe. His calm and thoughtful demeanor was
reassuring to others. His love for Marge and their
kids seemingly had no bounds.
Dick died on December 20, 2011, his and
Marge’s 57th wedding anniversary, the saddest day of her life.
To his family, Dick was a success in
whatever he did as a husband, a father, as an American, and as a
Christian. A tribute to Dick by one of his sons emphasizes that
point thusly:
“I know in my heart that I witnessed
greatness in my life in watching my father embrace life’s joys and
burdens with utmost passion, love of family, bravely, and with
humility. This gift, earned by my father, brings me life’s greatest
lesson.”